Module 25 -
Grief after trauma
Module 25
Chapter 3: Challenges you may face
When your view of the world changes
When he died, I felt like my life had ended. My future was with him – the future I thought I would have.
Since my best friend’s murder, the world no longer feels safe.
If you previously saw the world as a safe, just, or fair place, your views may have been profoundly challenged. You may be doing a lot of repetitive thinking or questioning, and your day-to-day functioning may have changed. You may feel fearful or less safe, and you may spend energy trying to avoid painful reminders.
What may help
- Acknowledge that your world has been shaken, and give yourself time to adjust.
- Some of the thoughts and feelings that you have now may change in time, especially as your trauma response fades.
- Both grief and trauma have the potential to change you. Sometimes when old views are shattered, new ones that offers hope and different ways of understanding the world are created.
I've been there
Esther shares about her brother's traumatic death and how she felt very lonely in her grief.(3:22)Video transcript